Good morning my sweeties.
Yes, by the introduction most of you can tell that this posting is for the male readers of the blog. Over the last year or two the women have also been there, but they prefer to email rather than comment.
On the last posting I made the remark that there was nothing really to talk about. Upon reading the post John chimed in by saying it would be a good time to talk about commitment. His exact words were, 'mistress, you were going to talk commitment'. And yes, in the privacy of our home John calls me mistress rather than Kathy. It took some time to become accustomed to the idea of being called by something other than my first name. In the beginning it bothered me, but really it is like him having something of a pet name for me. And again, yes, as I have no problem in thinking of myself as John's loving mistress as well as his wife.
In the privacy of our home and in fact most places my pet name for John is sweetie. It is a most appropriate name for him in that he is the sweetest man that I have ever met. When I want to be funny or when I want to make a point I call him slave or my little slave boy. Once, I accidently called him slave in front of our daughter, thought about it, and then decided that in front of her it was fine. She responded that same day by addressing her husband as slave boy in a very sweat tone of voice. He was embarrassed to say the least, but he quickly got over it.
What I suspect is that most of you love it when your mistress wives address you as sweetie, slave or boy or by some other pet name. Am I correct? What I also believe is that using the slave name reminds John that he is in fact my slave as well as my husband. He is not simply my submissive as most men are in femdom relationships he is my slave and my property and I love him all the more for being who he is.
Love,
Kathy
7 comments:
Our marriage is a Femdom marriage, the way I prefer it to be. As to addressing me my wife prefers to say, "young man" "my naughty little boy" and a couple of others. It is know that she is in charge outside the home, what most don't know is how she maintains control. Our marriage is strong, because of this relationship, would have it no other way. Jack
I am most often called pussyboy or pb for short. Many other things from time to time,
Irene is mistress, or princess or ma’am.
Best,
Rosco
Dear Kathy,
You are correct, I am her boy and I totally love it to be her good boy, when she compliments me after finishing a chore.
Love Tiptease
My Mistress wife, Diane, calls me her a little bitch. It’s used with love but conveys the message. I love it and we love our femdom lifestyle. DandsNZ
I agree that I enjoy and prefer to address my Mistress in terms that reflect her authority and the honor that she deserves. We live in the South, where I can refer to her as "Ma'am" in many public contexts as well as in private without drawing undue attention. I also appreciate it when she refers to me in ways that reinforce my submissive role and status, such as "my boy," or "pet," or "slave." I value both language and actions, rituals that reinforce the nature of our relationship.
My late wife would refer to me as "my little one" when we were alone or with anyone else who knew of our situation. I'd usually refer to her as "ma'am" when we spoke, rarely using her name, but I was never punished if I did. In public, it was the usual things married people call each other...but rarely my actual name.
My late wife would refer to me as "my little one" when we were alone or with anyone else who knew of our situation. I'd usually refer to her as "ma'am" when we spoke, rarely using her name, but I was never punished if I did. In public, it was the usual things married people call each other...but rarely my actual name.
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