Like everyone else John and I have been spending a great amount of time in our home. We are fortunate to have a nice back yard with a beautiful pool. In many ways we are very fortunate in that we are not dependent on paychecks for money to live on. Yet, dealing with the mental aspects of what is going on has been challenging.
People are almost always asking me for advice. The only thing I can say is to love the lady you are with. Trust in her judgment to lead each of your families through this crisis. Support her. Treat her with respect, and listen to her words. And, please remember that only second to love is your obedience to her. Yes, we want love, but we also want to know that you are there by our sides.
And, if you can brighten her world with flowers or poetry or a gentle kiss then do it. Take care of the children, change diapers, and help keep her home the way she likes it. And, if she allows take the time to kneel at her feet. One reader sent an email this morning that said kneeling at his wife's feet means the world to him. Please remember that I think of each of you as flowers in my garden who are growing in love and admiration for the lady in your life.
Love,
Kathy
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Dear Kathy,
Thank you for this lovely post, glad you are fine.
love tiptease
No children, have a wife that knows her role, knows that in times like these, she keeps the ship right. Yes this is a femdom home, what I wanted, what I need. The marriage is strong because of this. Being home, laid off from work, she finds she needs to insure I have projects, keep busy. Also when I have 'messed', she now gives longer spankings, not going to work, so she is insuring I really learn my lesson. No complaints from me, life is good thank's to my wife. Jack
My wife and I are retired and among the millions staying at home all of the time. I am her slave, have been for 12 years, and she is really enjoying having extra time together. She is overseeing all of my housework, adding so much more like doing the floors all over again while she sits and reads or watches tv. On command I will kneel before her a rub her feet.
When you mentioned you have a pool, we also have one living in Florida. My wife likes to go in it every day and float on her pool lounge while sipping a drink and reading. She makes me open a large golf umbrella and stand in the pool with it shading her from the sun. As she floats around the pool I must keep up with her on the lounge akimbo sure she is shaded. This goes on for anywhere from an hour to two hours. I am never allowed to drop the umbrella. Very difficult to do after about an hour, but she says that’s what slaves are for.
To all you slave/husbands out there you must really strive to obey and serve your Mistresses with extra relish and attention to detail during these difficult times. Always defer to your Mistress at all times and remember your lowly position in the home you ere fortunate to serve in.
sissyboy john
Mistress Kathy
Thank you for posting. Staying home is rubbing
on both of us. Your posting is a boast to us.
Stay well down there
jj
It has been a huge adjustment for both of us to be suddenly home. It’s obvious my wife couldn’t stand me 24/7. Then, we both realized something of a game changer: that I talk far too much and say stupid things. After I started speaking only when spoken to, or after having asked for her permission, things have been clicking so much better. It’s humbling to realize that I just don’t have very much worthwhile to say, and that I need to get out of the way and let my wife do all the talking and thinking for us. But that is our magic formula. Also, it’s amazing how much it really pays to address her as “m’am” and if anything goes wrong, for me to take full responsibility for it and make the most cringiest apology possible to her. My tongue should be used for speaking in only limited circumstances, and it much more belongs exploring and worshipping the soles of her feet, her toes, and other more forbidden places higher up at nighttime to relieve her stress. That has always been true, it’s more so now on steroids because of the situation.
Joel
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