Few things in this world go together so well as conversations and girl friends The atmosphere in the hotel tended to put a damper on our girls trip-but it was still fun to be away for a few days. It was me along with two best friends from high school. We talked and voted. We decided it was time for a girl's trip. In the city we went to it was almost impossible not to trip over the parade of pretty young girls attending bachelorette parties. My friends bought me one of those cute little vails so that we could pretend.
In one of our conversations a very attractive reporter walked by our table. She wanted to know how we were dealing with all the stress of the virus. 'A drink helps', my friend replied. But really we felt a little guilty about being out there. We didn't want to be contaminated, and we didn't want to give that nasty thing to anyone else. Then, one of the girls piped in with something like why are all the women you see on television so good looking. We were a little jealous of the reporter for both her looks and her age.
The comment made me thing about the femdom type stories that have come my way over the years.
Of course they are made for men, but why is it that the mistress is always so beautiful with the perfect figure. Then I thought about the women who worked at the studio. They were young, not really beautiful, but on the cute side. They were more like the average young women you tend to see on the street or work with in the office. The point is that it is not necessary to be beautiful to be a good mistress to a man. It is more about personality. It is about confidence, self assurance, and a desire to help people. When you think about it the cruel mistress is not really that mean. After all, she is giving the guy-client, boyfriend or husband what he wants.
In the studio the girls mainly came from two local colleges. It was not exactly planned that way, but once Tara had a couple of students from a certain school they tended to recruit friends. She wanted young women who could honestly laugh at a man when taking him for a walk on a leash or dressing him in a tutu. Before my employment in the studio I had no idea what a tutu was. Yes, we often dressed men in little tutus and paraded them around the studio for female amusement. Tara wanted young women who could genuinely be amused by these sought of antics. The college girls were young and innocent enough that their laughs were not be forced. And yes, one of the things I learned was that men love to have women laugh at them.
My message to young wives who are playing femdom games with your guy-don't take it all too seriously. Have fun with him and treat your self to a good laugh at his expense.
Love you all for reading. Hope this post brings all of you a little job on these dark days.
Kathy
This male married a woman that reminded him of the 50's. A true wife, mother, looks matters, but for me I just wanted a wife who knew that husbands sometimes need to be reminded that they don't get always what they want, that little boy in them sometimes need to visit "Mommie" lap and get a reminder.
ReplyDeletePlease take care of yourself and practice social distance!
DeleteMistress Kathy
ReplyDeletePray you and john stay well.
We love to hear your wise words
jj
Lady R & I were musing the other day; " is Femdom illumination or titillation?"..meaning one quick glance @ countries run by childless,liberal feminists ( Merkel, Sweden, etc) shows the following results: tolerated hostile invasions, collapsing social welfare systems, exploding rapes of women. In other words; women R being raped because men aren't being MEN. The rest of the world will never be some kind of OWK fantasy; it WILL be more resemble this: Patriarchal hard-ass arabs/africans ( horny,opportunistic welfare shoppers )marching in & claiming our ancestral homelands. It took some manly Greeks & Bulgars to hold them back last wk. The insanity of it all smacked us in the face; some green-haired Open Border feminist in Malmo won't be raped next mo. bc of some real men in the Balkans. In the season of what used to be meaningfully observed as Lent was that St. Paul chap right all along..just some musings..Stay safe, do we like our perversions so much?
ReplyDeleteI think many websites create a false impression, a fantasy world of stunningly attractive, sexily-dressed dominas who spend most of their time dominating their partner. The reality is a lot different. I know a couple who have been in a femdom relationship for years. They do not look like movie stars. They both wear everyday clothes and spend most of their time at home cooking, doing housework, watching tv etc. People who visit their house see nothing at all out of the ordinary. The only exception is the wife's sister, who knows about their lifestyle. Sometimes, when she notices that her brother-in-law is sitting uncomfortably, she will make a remark like: "Oh, I see June has disciplined you again."
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beauty is in the eye of the beholder
ReplyDeletei could care less of my wifes curves lumps bumps hair color etc. she is stunning
she wears lingerie for me and for her lovers and she knows she is amazing. it is how she carries herself that is important.
as to the humour. most definitely laugh away. my wife loves to make me look and feel ridiculous. honey over my head followed by feathers or rice crispies. outrageous frilly dresses or baby clothes. it is all part of the fun.
i told her about my fetishes desires hopes on our second date. ive asked her thoughts that night after she went hom . i got a third date so i didnt scare her off. she says she thought about how silly i would look in a pink dress .
a basis of fun is a great basis