tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post9000194331506384267..comments2023-12-14T09:58:54.477-06:00Comments on femdom101: Happy July 4thKathyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07388565466269673134noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-35845584804738560652020-07-13T06:31:09.887-05:002020-07-13T06:31:09.887-05:00Not only have women become more empowered now, but...Not only have women become more empowered now, but it is also easier for men to be themselves. I was brought up in a very alpha male time and always felt uncomfortable about it. About ten years ago we started a WLM and I feel this is how it was always meant to be for me. <br />We learned so much from reading this blog. I really hope this is not a goodbye as I know many other couples out there are looking for answers. Take care- Alan.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-19594196504375207282020-07-09T15:25:27.867-05:002020-07-09T15:25:27.867-05:00Came across a comment that humans are essentially...Came across a comment that humans are essentially pack hunters ("Are You A Sigma Personality" by Hearth Witch 1111). Which reminded me of my co-worker who described herself as an "Alpha". <br /><br />Could something like this apply to an FLR, with the woman being Alpha to the male?<br /><br />Tim<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-66110385331050854502020-07-09T14:47:16.895-05:002020-07-09T14:47:16.895-05:00A woman who is thinking of an FLR should check out...A woman who is thinking of an FLR should check out Victoria West's web site.<br /><br />"A Woman's Guide To A Female Led Relationship"<br /><br />TimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-74749832838608908782020-07-07T21:55:11.188-05:002020-07-07T21:55:11.188-05:00I occasionally google "Female Led Relationshi...I occasionally google "Female Led Relationships". I am looking for hints that a Femdom community may be gelling.<br /><br />Got suckered by a pornographic site, pretending to be an FLR web site.<br /><br />TimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-21340335974436851702020-07-07T14:33:00.000-05:002020-07-07T14:33:00.000-05:00Mistress Kathy,
Younger women will be in the posi...Mistress Kathy,<br /><br />Younger women will be in the position of innovators. They will be pioneering a new way of life, based on a very different paradigm. <br /><br />It is the task of us males to place our hopes and trust in these women. (And to be their guinea pigs). :)<br /><br />TimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-54767845110331722452020-07-05T19:38:52.739-05:002020-07-05T19:38:52.739-05:00Quoting from FLR Joy:
"Women already married...Quoting from FLR Joy:<br /><br />"Women already married before developing a FLR may enjoy a second private ceremony where he vows his love, obedience, devotion, chastity, and fidelity to her while she promises to love, care, guide and keep him."<br /><br />TimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-14733988505584025152020-07-05T12:52:36.757-05:002020-07-05T12:52:36.757-05:00In one web site it was commented that an FLR may b...In one web site it was commented that an FLR may be "gender fluid". That is, not a straight forward role reversal, with the roles being the old stereotyped ones. I think that means a certain degree of flexibility, in that particular tasks are done by the individual most competent at it.<br /><br />But in an FLR, there is a reversal in that the woman is dominant and the man subordinate.<br /><br /><br />TimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-34289969016296644302020-07-05T08:45:49.598-05:002020-07-05T08:45:49.598-05:00Dear Mistress Kathy,
With the knowledge of what b...Dear Mistress Kathy,<br /><br />With the knowledge of what being retired can do to an individuals lifestyle dynamics, let me say that i do understand Your comments about trying to be more active here and also the need for a younger woman's perspective. Not wanting to incur anyone's wrath; but with Your wealth of experience, life's ups and downs and the knowledge You've gained, please don't sell Yourself short. <br /><br />Over time, we've seen traditionally male and female roles evolve from those taught from early childhood back in the post WWII days. The freedom that women have in controlling their own lives and health have changed drastically since the 60's and new opportunities have brought out many very wonderfully competent and intelligent dominant females. The whole world has changed drastically and continues to evolve. Dominant people finding their counterpart with submissive partners is not just a male/female thing any longer. It's that compatibility factor that is so needed. I think what Tim is saying is that males are no longer confined to just domly dominant roles, especially at home and women are not relegated to being wives, stay-at-home mothers and homemakers. The change in society is evident. However, the dominance of women in the home has always been there. The only real problem, as i see it, is that males expected to always be dominant with their wives instead of being a partner or a submissive to her. As this changes, we see more men taking care of the children and women exceeding in all sorts of careers. <br /><br />Ms. Kathy, we miss You. It will be a happy day when You write more. <br />Thank You for Your time and sharing Your thoughts - whatever they may be.<br />Sincerely,<br />larry larryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14897779878922510763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6240497396702143866.post-86115340178337918402020-07-03T22:15:24.819-05:002020-07-03T22:15:24.819-05:00Mistress Kathy,
On a piece of paper I scribbled a...Mistress Kathy,<br /><br />On a piece of paper I scribbled a quote from a web site that seems to have disappeared. Quoting:<br /><br />"A female led relationship casts aside the assigned gender roles given by society and it creates a different relationship. For many men and women this is new and exciting ...Changing gender roles makes both partners vulnerable because they are exploring new territory together. While exploring a female led relationship both partners find themselves in new roles that can be scary and exciting at the same time."<br /><br />Perhaps some young woman will soon be exploring this in a vlog on YouTube.<br /><br />TimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com