Note For Jellybean

Well my little sweetie, I'm proud of you.  Last week you found a way of doing something special to please your wife. For that you get one of my gold stars for being a good, obedient boy! I know your wife is sick, and there are times when it is difficult for you to deal with things. You must always remember that God put you on earth to be her servant, and your duty is to her.

We have not talked about this on the blog, but often times women like to have a man undress them. When I come home from a business trip, it is a real treat to have an attentive husband. We have a little routine. John will have a glass of wine ready, often  a candle glowing in our bedroom. So that we can talk the television is always turned off. As a mistress wife, I never like to kick off shoes. It is a husband's duty to carefully remove his wife's shoes, and put them in place. John will then use his strong, but tender fingers to remove the remainder of my clothing.

My sweet husband knows that when he removes my blouse or bra, I like a little kiss on the nape of my neck. It is often at that moment I hear those special words from John, 'I love you mistress'. When I hear those words, it makes my heart melt. When I hear those lovely little words, it tells me that years ago I made the right decision in marrying this sweet man. It also tells me that the decision to stay with the marriage by becoming his mistress was the correct one. For all of you gentlemen who read this blog, I would encourage each and one of you to learn to undress your wives in this fashion. It is not something that necessarily leads to sex as much as it provides an intimate moment for conversation. In my opinion couples don't talk as much as they should. Real men are not only obedient to their wives, but also attentive to their little needs in life.
Real men look for ways to please the women in their life whether she is a wife or a mistress, or both.

Most women remember the first time they were undressed by a man as kind of an exciting experience.
Being undressed by a male servant is a different type of feeling, but it is also a very nice experience for a women. In the studio Tara explained to me that the buttons on women's clothing were on the opposite side than on men's clothing. She explained the reason was this. In the 'old days' women had servants to help them dress and undress. Back then, of course, these servants were all women. The modern women, Tara told me should have the nimble fingers of a man to do the work for her. She took great pride in almost always having a man present to help with her clothing, her bath, and most personal needs. Men, she explained, when well trained make wonderful servants. In the studio the better house boys were trained as lady's maids. At the time it didn't make me feel any better to know that John had served as one of these  maids.

Happy New Year to all of you. A special kiss for Jellybean for being a good servant.

Kathy