This has been one of those months when it has been difficult to maintain interest in the blog.
Some of the comments has been great, some interesting, and then those that make we wonder if the commenter has ever followed the blog. In my view a husband should never be exchanged with, or loaned to another women for the sexual purpose. If a good friend needs help with a household project that is one thing. I don't even like the idea of my man kissing the bare feet of another women. I believe that the act of kissing bare feet, licking, and sucking toes is a sexual act that a man should perform for one, and only one women.
As we get ready for Christmas there are issues that need to be resolved between John and I. Yes, I want John's love, his respect, and his obedience. Somewhere between respect and obedience is a command that there is to be no 'talking back'. This is a very basic rule that as of recently John has failed to follow. If we had been on an out of town trip, he would have once again earned the privilege of wearing the pretty yellow ribbon in his hair. Since we are home that will not happen, but he will not be attending the sporting match his favorite college team is participating in. Instead his ticket will be sold, and the proceeds used to attend sewing and cooking classes. John also received a gift of the rod in the same manner it was applied in the studio.
As your children grow older, have husbands and wives, children of their own, traditions change. We had neither our our son or daughter for Thanksgiving. Our daughter and son-in-law had Thanksgiving dinner with his family. Our son had a busy work schedule, and couldn't make the trip. Sometime ago I reported that my daughter had the makings of a mistress wife hidden in her personalty. Back then some one asked if I ever had a conversation with her about our lifestyle. No, I reported. For one reason or another I could never quite find the words to start the conversation. Well, guess what. Becky started the conversation that I could not find the words to began.
Men are strange creatures. They want to live as a submissive. They even want to live as slave husbands, but don't want family members to know how they live. This blog has been a continuing source of humiliation for John. He, or course, never knows for sure who reads it, or what any indivdual may or may not know about our choice of lifestyle..............................................................................................................................................................................................................
Kathy
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Kathy, My wife and I are happily in a situation that we are both in our preferred "positions" with her being the "top" and I, the "bottom". However we're going through a bit of a period where I start to feel that her alleged dominance and control are perceived by me as just being mean, rude, and, frankly, bitchy. What is the line, in your opinion, that delineates dominance and control from meanness and subsequently causing me to be unhappy and unwilling to submit to her requests?
Thanks, D
Ma'am......i'm not sure what "a gift of the rod" means in your relationship since I thought you never used corporal punishment on John.
leigh
I am fascinated to know why Becky broached the subject and what in particular she wished to talk to you about - your relationship with her father or her own with her husband? Or both?
I find this blog to be the most interesting of the numerous Femdom blogs online. I tend not to post too often but I await and read each post with interest. I do hope you continue with it as it provides a valuable insight into a real Femdom relationship.
Personally, I think it is way over the top to include your children in any of this. Get real!
Mistress Kathy
If or when you gat a chance, look up ...Owning and Training a Male Slave by Ingrid Bellemare.
REALLY powerful stuff and she talks a little about "if this slave is your husband." If you have never read this before, maybe wait until the hollidays are over.
Love
Jellybean
We share your perspective. We are devoted to each other and have no desire to divert our time and feelings to another. Fantasy is one thing, but in reality this could only undermine our marriage.
Happy Holidays to all!
EB
Mistress Kathy,
i read your blog with a lot of pleasure. Not so many time i would like, because i agree with you, men are too long time on computers rather than in kitchen for their wifes and Mistress.
tomorrow, i'll be in my family-in-law for Christmas.
so i'd like to tell you thank you and wish you a merry Christmas for You and John.
your french reader and fan
A BOTTLE OF LIQUID SOAP CAN DO WONDERS FOR A MISBEHAVING MALE MOUTH: EVERY TIME HE OPENS IT TO SAY SOMETHING INAPPROPRIATE MAKE HIM KEEP IT OPEN AND GIVE A FEW SQUIRTS
Kathy and John,
Merry Chritmas and a Happy New Year!!!!
Patty and Gary
@Carol
Kathy's daughter is a fully grown adult with a marriage of her own.
Mistress Kathy and John
Merry Christmas to you both.
I pray that you both will have a very peaceful and nice Christmas.
Love
Jellybean
Dear Mistress Kathy, john and all of your followers and especially those who have followed and contributed; you have all kept this blog so very interesting and so helpful, thank you all and I pray you will all have a Merry Christmas, or whatever you beliefs call for.
Observing
Thank you Ms. Kathy for all for your thoughtful posts this year. May you and John have a very happy holiday!
A Merry Christmas to you Ms Kathy and to your family as well
I think that the idea of ahusband being loaned out "sexually", is generally a case of male fantasies. But in regards to house projects and houseowrk, is defintly a reality. Ive been "loaned out" many times to help out the boyfriend or husband of a female friend of my girlfriend.From helping him build a porch,shhetrock a bathroom or even doing the laundry and house cleaning.
And i dont think ive ever been asked whther i wanted to help or not. It was always a case of various girlfriends of mine volunteering me .Or of the other wife/girlfriend asking my girlfriend for premission to have me come over[niether of them would ask me .The request was always to my girlfriend]
Ive even had a few platonic female friends that "volunteered" me to do various community projects, home repairs for them or thier friends[im a carpenter] .And i remember on one occiasion when one platonic female friend was telling another about not finding the time to clean the house, my female frined "volunteered " me, since she had heard from an old girlfriend of mine that i was good at it.
I would add that these were all normal everyday situations.There was nothing particulaly "kinky" about the situations.Its just the way society is nowdays
Wow Ma'am, two bombshells in one post. CP for John (my wife/Mistress would approve of that) and a revealing conversation with your daughter. We're both very intrigued with these comments.
Hope you both have a lovely Christmas and thanks for the best blog on the net.
Big-Bob.
Ms Kathy
I don't want to let the year out without saying thank you for your blog and all the work that goes into it. It really helps me to understand my own submissive nature and how it could work in a beautiful family setting.
Slowsong
Kathy, I'm a new follower of your blog and find it refreshing to see people discussing the everyday realities of living in a FemDom marriage. My wife accepted my submission on Halloween weekend this year and is gradually embracing the pleasure of domination. I want to thank you for being one of the brave Doms blazing the way for others to follow. Happy New Year to you! I look forward to following your blog in 2012.
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