It is a hot, hot Friday afternoon. Both John and I came home from work early. The garden is over grown with weeds. To John's surprise and dismay I put him in the garden to work. Instead of hearing a happy 'yes mistress', I only heard a grown. In a way I don't blame John, I wouldn't want to be out there working in this terrible heat.
For some reason I wanted John to have the feeling of what it would be like to be a real slave. He has only been out there for twenty minutes or so, but the sweat is pouring off of him. He doesn't really understand why he is being ordered to work on this hot day, he only knows it is his wife's command. However, that is all he really needs to understand.
I heard from Karen today. She decided to give her guy a work weekend. This weekend he will be painting the apartment. When he is finished the painting, he is to clean every thing including the stove. She took the advice of 'lost soul' who made the comment. Instead of menial task she is giving her guy real work to do.
In my opinion men do too much paper work. Too much office work. Today's man needs to do more physical work. It is good for their muscles. It is especially good when a man understands that work is a way of serving his lady. When the weather is cooler, I like to relax outside with a book, and watch John do the garden. I think it gives a man a certain sense of satisfaction to know that his mistress is watching and approving of what he is doing.
It is really a simple thing, but yes, I have come to enjoy having authority over my husband. John may not want to work on this hot day, but he would rather work than take the consequences of not obeying me. John didn't do anything wrong to earn this little assignment, it is just a way to let him know who is boss. John needs to be constantly reminded of who is the mistress, and who is the slave. It is not that he forgets. It is more that he needs the sense of assurance.
It's been about forty minutes now, time to bring my boy in, and let him take a shower. I expect John to thank me for letting him come back in.
Love, Mistress Kathy
Friday, July 10, 2009
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Mistress Kathy
as always you do excellent job.of course john is your slave and you are his owner.I love the way you do with john I would like to be in place of john.yes I know it is so difficult to work in that hot day.but I love to be a slave and my pleasure is my mistress pleasure.I love you.you are the best slave owner in the world.I am 25 yrs old male.but if I would fine any woman in her 50 yrs I love to be her full time slave.I love to serve her needs.Mistress Kathy God bliss you.take care of yourself.I really learn from you how to be a real slave.
Mistress Kathy-
Yes there certainly is a sense of security and assurance (as you put it,) when you know exactly what your place is. I suspect a lot of Women would be surprised at how many guys there are out there who fantasize about having a Woman come up to him and just simply tell him what she wants and when and how to do it.
Of course, how many of these guys would actually follow through and for how long...? I suspect not many.
Are you truly a submissive if you are only submissive on your own terms?
Isn't that what many have been wrestling with?
Matthew
Dear Mistress Kathy,
i have been reading Your blog for several months now but have never commented. Your latest entry, however, has so touched a nerve that i can no longer resist.
Your husband john is truly a lucky man. i can't imagine any true submissive who would not jump at the chance to me married to You.
You have a dominant nature that I feel is really quite rare in Women. i think that even those who profess dominance, do it either to please thier husbands, or out of convenience but do not relish it the way you obviously do.
i especially like Your comment about enjoying reading a book while watching Your slave toil. You are absolutely right, any true submissive, would also derive a subtle pleasure from knowing that he is toiling simply because his Woman wants it that way.
i first began reading Your blog when You were thinking of ending it a few months back. i, and i'm certain countless others are grateful that You chose to continue.
John needs to be constantly reminded of who is the mistress, and who is the slave. [b]It is not that he forgets. [u]It is more that he needs the sense of assurance.[/b][/u]
I believe those few words alone capsulize the core need of many a submissive in a D/s relationship.
It's wonderful to hear that Karen is getting Her apartment painted and Her stove cleaned, I'm sure She'll really be pleased with the results, but most importantly for both Karen and Her man is the shifting of Power in Her relationship, he "dances to Her tune" and should love every moment of it .. but by removing Herself from his presence once She has set him about his tasks then returning and sharing the joy of all She is doing without him, hopefully things he would really enjoy doing with Her, reenforces both partners standing within the relationship, he is in a sense being punished or going through an attitude adjustment, the punishment isn't the tasking in this case it is the denial of spending time with Karen.
lostsoul
I haven't posted a comment recently, but have been reading. It's interesting to hear that you have decided to see how John would deal with being a "real" slave. Pleas let us know.
I haven't posted about Karen because I wanted to see how it developed, but I'm glad to see that she is putting her sub to work and to her advantage by having him paint and clean. Please let us know how he reacts when he finds out that work is not all fun and games.
One point I wanted to make was that I was very surpised that Karen's sub (I forget his name) was serving two women -- Karen and her room mate.
Let's not forget that from a male perspective being a sub has a certain amount of sexuality invloved in it. So serving two women would be like having a vanilla (ughh I hate that word) relationship and making out with is girlfriend's roommate -- it just isn't done!!
If the rommmate is still around, Karen's boy should be told that she is off limits and that he should only respond to Karen's orders (IMHO, anyway). Now if Karen wants to lend him out, that's her choice, but he shouldn't be going around offering his services to to the roommate.
I predict that he will not make it through the painting and cleaning exercise and will be gone. However I also predict that Karen will have a flame lighted inside her and will see that joy of being a dominant and that joy will stay with her throught her life and that she will meet a "real" sub someday.
George
On Sunday I mowed my mistress's lawn. The yard is large and uneven and filled with many rocks and branches; the lawn mower is a little rickety. It was hot and dirty work. I loved it, because she working in the garden at the same time, and was very approving and appreciative of my work. Then I dug her compost pile, and then we had the best lovemaking we have ever had!
Mistress Kathy,
I write to support you in your blog and congratulate you in your own empowerment. You and your blog are a godsend to women-infatuated men--submissive men--everywhere; and a great example to women. In my opinion, it's very simple. It's because you understand that men--dare I say/hope all or most men--openly or secretly take pride in a woman who is self-confident in claiming her power over them. Even more important, you enjoy giving orders and being served by John and by men in general.
Finally, I really appreciate the fact that you have gone beyond the prevailing idea in "the scene" that femdom is just a preference. You have said that women as a whole need to be empowered over men. Your vision that someday it will be normal for men to be in subordinate roles is a beautiful one. We all need to follow you in entertaining the vision that men are more suited to roles as assistants and helpmates than leaders. Being a leader in relationships and in society is so unsuited to males. Someday soon a woman holding a man on a leash will evoke smiles of approval and pleasure from onlookers.
Some have and may criticize you for saying things like this again and again, but in my opinion, these comments need to be emphasized and repeated. I think your blog is "just right."
Please take this as a note of personal support.
Richard
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