Once again I love the comments. Some poetry would have been nice, but for now I will settle for comments.
The comments show that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
There is one point I agree with Org's mistress on. When I look down I want to see a smiling man looking up at me. Unless I am punishing or scolding him about something. In that case it is OK and appropriate for his eyes to focus down.
The good news is that I have a new project for work. It is a nice project that will consume most of my time for next couple of weeks. My next posting will be some time in April.
Love, Mistress Kathy
About Me
- Kathy
- My name is Kathy. My husband, John and I have a 'fem/dom' marriage. The blog tells the story about how it all started, the problems, the stress, and issues of living a lifestyle that is slightly deviant from the norm.
15 comments:
To the couple who are in their 60's;
Are you kidding? I think it's absolutely fabuluous that you and your wife are in your 60's and have been in a flr for 20 years! What an exciting way to do the 60's. I became very aroused reading your post. Because you are both retired you have lots of time and freedom together. I'm sure that must be VERY intense becuase you are free to serve her everyday...and she is free to focus on dominating you everyday! Wow, I'm jealous. I cannot imagine having to remain naked at all times and serve a dominant woman everyday in the way you described serving your wife.
Does she happen to have a younger sister who is single and dominant?? ;) I'm 48 and a good guy looking for a loving domme.
Bryan
Bryan,
Are you serious? This guy got married at 16, no doubt in West "By God" Virginia, and I'll bet they have three teeth between them.
Can you imagine this idiot wandering around his trailer, butt naked, saggy ass, and low hanging scortum, doing what his fat, fried food fed sow was yelling at him to do? Probably yelling to get the chickens out of the bedroom.
He's probably naked because he saves his best clothes...boxer shorts, to go up to the whiskey store on Saturday nights.
If you're aroused by reading that post, and jealous to boot, I'ld suggest parking your car, with you in it, on the local freight train crossing...they'll be along shortly to put you out of your misery.
I agree with Anon. The man can't even type correctly. Check out his comment on the previous post....whoa! what a genius!!!!!!
ms cathy,
I am sorry for all the uprore I caused on ur blog . I was trying to point out marrige and femdom relations are a life time comittment and Iv been in one for 46 yrs and i love my wife and would have it no other way. I wonder if u and ur hubby r that comitted. IMm sorry and hope I did no harm to ur blog it is about u and ur relations not mine and for that i beg ur forgiveness .
62 yr old
MsKathy,
You have helped my Wife and i move into the lifestyle just by You being so honest in YOur blog.
You and your husband are good people to share Yyall's experience with the world.
pls/pls/Please continue.
femserver
Ms. Kathy:
I came across your blog today and found it most enjoyable...I especially liked the "Comments" section...I see that I was preceded by the well travelled 'Widgets'...Rachel and aj...
Hiya guys...
Truth be told....I am somewhat doubtful as to the veracity of some of what I have read...one of the subs who shows up now and again is a Medical Doctor...who has no qualms about being seen in his best La Perla panties in front of strange ( at least to him) women friend's of his wife...our heroine included...
Since,even in Louisiana where licences are required to practice medicine,such risk taking heightens the chance of opprobrium...
I also find it somewhat disengeneous that someone who is an Accountant....a profession of exacting principles would continue to spell (as more than one poster has noted) in such a haphazard manner...again,as has also been noted....like a guy...
Sassypants....
Ms. Kathy:
I was re-reading your early posts with my wife and when she read about Tara...the top of her head blew off...
This is a woman who took advantage of your husbands fetish...John shows up at her doorstep,not divorced,not separated.but married...to you!
She takes him for thousands of dollars...pimps him for information on you and your children...invades your privacy and in effect steals from you...
Forget John for a moment....she knew about you...she stole from you...and what do you do...do you demand your money back...threathen her,her husband with exposure if you don't see every dime she ripped off from your family using your husband's perfidy...
No.................you befriend her...I think, as does my wife, that she played more than one member of your family as a fool...
Sassypants
First off my wife and I are in our early sixties, and believe me we are not dead! I take personal offense to those who imply that just becuase someone who is 62 is too old for this lifwstyle. And what does grammar have to do with it..geesh
Tara is a "grifter",someone running a hustle out of her condo...if you hadn't found the panties in John's bag...she would still be sucking every last dime from the family coffers...by the way,let me go out on a rather short limb here...do you think she paid any taxes on the money/monies that she "earned"???
I don't know about Louisiana but in Florida and New York,since there is/was no sex involved,the business can be legal...so,if she didn't pay taxes,in addition to everything else,she's a tax cheat...
You mentioned that she,or you think she felt bad about hurting your family....well...Duh!...
She probably thought on your initial visit,that you were coming over to shoot her,which given the fact that the panty clad subs are busy looking at the ground,no doubt to pick up nickels,you could have probably gotten away with...
Sassypants
To the 62 year old,
The only way that you have to express yourself on this medium, is to use proper spelling, and at least, an attempt at proper grammar.
It would seem, that the national past-time is to take offense. Obviuosly, you are not dead, but should be.
The mental picture of you, 62 years of age, wandering about the house naked, is more than I can stomach.
Kindly vanish.
What's geesh? Something that empties into your Depends?
The old man takes personal offense? Too bad, pop. What are you going to do about it? Kiss my ass!!!!!!!!!!!
I noticed where Ms. Kathy has stated that 'god' made men submissive...maybe/maybe not...
Now I AM a submissive man...I know exactly how this kink came about...I was educated in Catholic schools by the delitefully mis-named Sisters of Mercy...they both spanked (ok paddled) to the more exact among you and gave corner time...there was an objective reality to it...i.e. I was there...
Now 'god' is a large concept...in this country a poll recently came out that 15% of those polled do NOT believe in 'god' the sky version or otherwise...now for Ms. Kathy to believe that 'god' created man to be submissive is fine in my book...no skin off my nose,or heinie for that matter....but to state it as an emperical fact is well kind of silly...even in this small corner of the world...people who follow this blog...after you throw out the non-theists,I'm among the first to go thank you...you'd probably have as many definitions of 'god' as you'd have people making them...
Sassypants...
If you have a "slave" for a husband,can you live a lifestyle that is "slightly devient from the norm'?
I find Ms. Kathy's thoughts to be interesting,informative and sometimes even erotic...having said that,her and John's lifestyle is deviency cubed...
As I have mentioned,I am a submissive man...I am also good with finances,my wife with shopping...she would want to handle the household money about as much as wanting to invest with Bernie Maddow...
While she occasionally likes to beat the snot out of me,she would find it laughable for me to have to kneel before her,to be her foot stool would cause howls,as for crawling into a cage...well,we already have a dog...
Look,what works for Ms. Kathy works for Ms. Kathy...John as well...my point is,for people starting out,more likely the girl trying to grasp what the guy requies...the whole fem as top isa very complex thing...for a stranger,even one as knowledgeable in certain dynamics of the Scene to be giving advice could cause as much harm as good...
One man's opinion...
Sassypants...
I was re-reading Bryan's "punishment" in being sent off to buy panties...obviously,in this kink,one man's humiliation is another man's pleasure...
I pretty much wear the feminine danties 24/7...my only consideration to boy's undies is when we go out to dinner...having had a heart attack 4 years ago,I have this abject fear of tipping over between dinner and dessert...not wanting (hopefully) to wake up in the ER in a pair of french frillies,I leave them at home...the Mrs. fully understands...
I have no shame when out shopping for panties....I'm mostly a size 7 so style and selection is extensive...I tell the shop girl what I'm looking for,most could care less...some smirk,some giggle and a few,to be frank,want to leave skidmarks...what I find interesting is just how many want to sell me a bra...I guess the longerie business is commission driven...:)
I live in south florida so I'm in panties outside most days when
there is sun...friends have seen me,neighbors,and even the post man...as I wander down to the mail box (about 50 feet from the front door) when he drives by with the mail...
So for me anyway,panties and punishment are pretty much mutually exclusive...
Sassypants
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