A Quick Note About Mike

From reading the comments I think many of you are making more out of my relationship with Mike than was there. Mike is a very nice older man. His primary pleasure in life is to serve his mistress. When the lady that he served moved out of town, I was able to help fill that vacuum for him.




Even though John lives as a slave husband he knows that he is my man, my only man. Mike came into the house as a servant, not a lover. He came in to work, to serve, and then went home to his wife. Yes, Mike is a very sweet and caring man. Yes, I enjoyed having him in the house as a servant and friend. He would make lunch, he would go to the grocery, the cleaners, and put gas in the car. The only rule was that he would accept repayment for any money he spent.







If the right man came along I would not mind having another 'Mike' in the house. A sweet man who is willing to serve is a treasure. Mike would come into the house and work for three or four hours. At the end of a work session he would kneel at my feet with his head on the floor. I would inspect his work. If his work was satisfactory, and is always was, he would be allowed to remove my shoe and kiss my foot. This was his reward. I would than tell him 'good boy' and give him permission to leave. Typically, he would say 'thank you mistress for allowing me to serve you.' Sometimes we would talk for a while.




Mike is an older 'boy' who understood that he might make my bed, but was never allowed in it.

One of the things I do enjoy about older men is that the sex drive is less intense, and you can enjoy their company for what they are. It took John a few weeks, but he understood that Mike was more like a maid who happened to be male.


Like my John, Mike is what I refer to as a service submissive. These are men that simply enjoy being of service to a lady who is willing to boss them around. They make wonderful servants and companions. I would tell any women who reads this blog that these sweet men are keepers. The more you work them, the more they like it. They want to please. The more you boss them around, the more submissive they become. There should be some sought of a service who would match these men with women who need help with house work. What women need to understand is that these wonderful men do not want to be treated as an equal by the women in their life.

Men like my husband and Michael are the happiest when they have an opportunity to serve. They want to think of themselves as servants, or house slaves to a confident, strong women. With a little training, and discipline, they are easy to domesticate. They are easy to domesticate because that is what they want. They want a women to make rules for them, to make them kneel at her feet, to make them her pet. This is what they were born for. Unfortunately, modern society proclaims that every one should be equal. What this blog advocates is the freedom to be 'unequal'.

A little over five years ago John gave me a very precious gift. He gave to me a gift of himself, a gift of his freedom and independence. With the acceptance of his gift I made a promise to myself to be the best mistress possible to him. It was not cruel, it was what he needed. From reading the blog you know that this was not always easy for me. Fortunately, the experience with Tara helped me understand what was needed. Most women don't really have a clue of what to do when their husband comes to her with the story that he wants her to take more control in their marriage.

When I stared the blog I had serious doubts as to whether man would find it interesting or boring. Overall, after one full year most of the comments have been very good. The good news is that Femdom 101 is not required reading. If you find it boring, or if it is not helpful in your relationship, you may quit reading.






Love, Kathy